Many times someone is like you don’t understand….

I am like, no you don’t understand because I see your actual issues besides the one/ones you are preaching at me…⁂ https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-preach-to-the-choir#:~:text=%C3%97-,to%20preach%20to%20the%20choir,who%20already%20agree%20with%20it.